Speak good or remain silent?

The Prophet (saw) said: “Man kaana yu’minu billahi wal yawmil aakhiri fal yaqul khairan aw liyasmut – Whoever believes in Allah (swt) and the Last Day should speak good or remain silent.” (Hadis Riwayah Bukhari-Muslim)

Salam..

Last week, if I'm not mistaken it was on Monday, there was a tazkirah slot before zuhur prayer at surau FEM. Yeah, kinda of missing the moment of tazkirah session at my school. Giving and listening to tazkirah made us to remind the small things, especially in our daily routine. It is better for us to correct or perfect our amal first before you correct others. Right?

Ehehe. Okay, actually the hadith stated above is related to our daily life. Let me give you some situations - which you and me, maybe have experienced.

1. When you are talking or discussing with someone, suddenly, the person who you talked with is like to fight or argue with you. And you are trying to argue with him/her back because you know the point there. Unfortunately, because he/she has good, better, best skill of speaking, you lost the words you want to said. So, you remain silent till the end. Let him/her continue with his/her passion. Also, you didn't want to hurt their heart because you know the effects then! Keep being attacked '^_^

2. Your friends are slandering someone. And, you hesitated to join them because you know what the purpose is. Ehehe. And, don't you remind them that their action is out of purpose? Gossiping and talk bad about people is worst than zina. My ustaz said so. ^_^


3. When you are in a class and the lecturer don't come yet, you see a group of students who are laughing and made some noise in the class. Do you pretend that you do not see anything or tegur them in a nonchalantly way? Or, you join them because you are so bored of waiting?! Ahaha. 


Anyhow, whatever situation you have been, it is better for us to be silent and speak as little as possible. Because sometimes your words are more hurt than sword itself! ouch! And, a nasyid lyrics from Inteam said so, 

Terlajak perahu masih boleh diundur lagi 

Terlajak kata hilang percaya 

Hilang percaya...

See! Maybe your colleague can't trust anymore on your words! Keep saying vain speech or rubbish talk! uish! I hope that I am out of this group. ^_^

Whatever it is, keep upgrade yourself towards a better person! 

Renung-renungkan dan selamat beramal! ^_^

By Time

In the name of Allah the Most gracious and Most Merciful

1. By Al-'Asr (the time).

2. Verily! Man is in loss,

3. Except those who believe (in Islamic Monotheism) and do righteous good deeds, and recommend one another to the truth (i.e. order one another to perform all kinds of good deeds (Al-Ma'ruf)which Allah has ordained, and abstain from all kinds of sins and evil deeds (Al-Munkar)which Allah has forbidden), and recommend one another to patience (for the sufferings, harms, and injuries which one may encounter in Allah's Cause during preaching His religion of Islamic Monotheism or Jihad, etc.).

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Salam. I already left my blog readers with no recent post for about a week. Pity on you. hehe. Okay2. This is update news that had happened around me. Jeng3... (suspense)

I always face with 'janji Melayu' - he/she didn't appear on the time they had fixed for a meeting, a date or something that nearly around this circumstances.

It is already stated in Noble Al-Quran in Surah Al-Asr. Allah already vowed with time. Didn't you consider it as the most important equity in your daily life? 

Without time, you might face your life as 'casually' (sambil lewa) as you want. And people might considered you as least responsible person and this bad habit can lead to a bad future. 

What did I mean by "bad future'? Let's say, when you are in career field soon, or in the nearest time - industrial attachment, you are needed to meet client as what your task need to. And, because you forgot to set your alarm clock to wake up in the morning or forgot about the appointment, the 1st impression of your client towards you will be bad. They will perceive you as a person who don't appreciate time wisely.

And, what made myself felt sad is he/she appeared an hour later. OMG! This is really terrible. At that time, I would feel moody or not interested anymore on that meeting. Or, if I don't think this appointment is such important, maybe I just go back home rather than waiting. 

Why not you look for Japanese style? They will appear 10-15 minutes early in a meeting. And what made I really proud is, the boss himself/herself comes early than his/her employee. They show good examples towards his/her subordinates. 

Em. In the future, maybe, I will set time of appointment an hour early than the exact meeting. Do you get me? Okay2. Let me explain. If the exact time of meeting is at 9 am, I will ask them to come at 8 am (assume that they don't know the exact time). And, I know, there must be certain people who will appear at 9 am or 10 minutes later.. ngeh3.. (hahaha. mcm jahat kan? tapi itulah hakikatnye)

Anyway, I always remind myself to be punctual as possible as I can. If not, I will SMS or call those who I need to have meeting with and tell them what is happened to me. So, please guys, do the same. Don't let people waiting for you like kera mahukan bunga (ahaha. Is it right? ). And, please, please, please, say SORRY if you are late.

Please remember, TIME IS SO PRECIOUS. It can't turn back. I hope you get the message here!

Okay, it's already 2.44 am, I need to pen off. Wanna sleep! Em. I don't have any meeting for this weekend! yeay! Let's have rest! =)

Wassalam.. 

p/s:
1. Currently, I'm working on proposal paper of industrial visit. It need to be approved by PIC next week.
2. And, I am in toothache for about a week already. I just made an appointment with dentist at HEP last tuesday and my turn will be on early march.. owhh! very sad.. until when i need to bertahan =( ?